Dear Immodestly Dressed,

You’ve been there. You know how it feels.

To experience a situation that you hate, and you want so desperately to have the power to change it, but you don’t. Sometimes a situation can seem so chaotic and impossible and you can hurt so much because of it. And you wish so badly you could change it, but you just can’t. Maybe you don’t know how. Maybe you try, and nothing seems to work. Maybe it’s just something so great that you can’t do it alone.

But you’ve been there.

So have I.

How can I express myself right now? I feel so frustrated with how women and young girls are dressing. And the best way I can think of to express the seriousness of it is by writing a letter. This is a letter girls who dress immodestly. It is not directed at any one person, but to all young girls who are in the wrong on this issue. You know who you are.


Dear Immodestly Dressed,

There are a few things that I would like to say to you regarding how you dress. Not only how you dress, but also how you act. And your attitude. And your self-worth. And respecting yourself.

I know why you do it. You’ve seen other girls leave little to the imagination. And you’ve seen the attention they get. You’ve seen that good-looking guy you have a crush on eyeing her. Because he is interested in what she is showing. And that girl who shows her cleavage and wears shorts that cover little more than her panties? She is the one that gets all of the compliments on how “gorgeous” she is. She is the one all of the guys pay attention to. She is the one who gets glamorous treatment. So you think, “maybe if I dress that way, I will get attention. Maybe I will be pretty, too.”

Or maybe you’re not a young girl at school. Maybe you’re older, and you’re dressing this way. Maybe you think you need to because when you go out with your husband, he spends more time looking at half-dressed women than he does looking at you, his own wife. And maybe you feel like you have to dress this way to try and keep your husband’s eyes on you. Maybe you think, “if I dress this way, I’ll be pretty enough for my husband. He won’t look at other women anymore.”

And that’s what we all want, isn’t it? To be pretty.

Immodestly Dressed, I want to take this time to try and express to you how many problems you are causing when you dress this way. First, you should know that there are some really nice boys out there who are struggling a lot. These boys want to be pure. They want their thoughts to be pure. But you need to understand that when you don’t cover your body, boys struggle to do that. It makes the whole process nearly impossible when you are half-naked in front of them.

Immodestly Dressed, I want you to think about this for a moment. Someday, you will be married. And you will have a husband whom you want to have eyes for you, and you alone. But girls who aren’t modest are causing your husband to struggle with his thoughts. Wouldn’t that hurt you? Think about it this way. When you dress immodestly, there are a lot of husbands who see you. There are a lot of husbands who want to be faithful to their wives in action and in thought. And you are the girl who is causing this husband to struggle. You are the girl who is causing this man to hurt his wife deeply. You are the girl that has the potential to destroy this marriage without even knowing you’re doing it. And you are the girl that Satan is using to ruin lives.

This is a serious problem, not just with the secular world, but in the Christian realm as well. There are Christian men who can’t even serve on the Lord ’s Table for fear of having to fight this war as they see women sitting in pews. The church should be the one place where men of God can go and find peace and rest. It shouldn’t be one of the worst places for them to go when struggling with such a battle.

But it’s not just an issue about how you dress. It’s about your attitude. And your body language. The way you act around boys can make his life Hell as well. Even if you’re dressed modestly, there are things you can do and say that make these boys struggle. You need to be cautious about these things as well.

Immodestly Dressed, you need to know that you are beautiful the way you are, without revealing your body to everyone around you. You need to know that when you dress that way, you are not attracting the boys you really need to be with anyway. You need to know that the one you really need to look good for is God. And when you dress this way, you look hideous to Him.

You also need to know that just because you are going swimming doesn’t mean that God’s standards no longer apply. So wearing bikinis that cover less than your underwear is never okay. And just because you are in a pageant, participating in a wedding, or going to prom doesn’t mean the rules no longer apply. We are to be modest in everything we do in our lives. The only exception to dressing modestly is when you are married, and that is in the bedroom with your husband ONLY.

Walking around half-naked is nothing short of selling yourself for free. When boys and/or men see you leaving little to the imagination, they begin to visually consume you in their minds. Don’t be that cheap. Have some respect for yourself. Because you are worth more than that. Don’t be a free prostitute. When you dress this way, that’s what you reduce yourself to.

So please. Stop letting Satan use you as an instrument to destroy souls, lives, marriages, and more. Not just for me, but for yourself, and more importantly, for God. You are worth so much more than that.

Hannah Burleson

Pray.

Pray.
For children who don't understand what it means that their parents are dead.
Pray.
For sisters who haven't heard if their brothers are okay.
Pray.
For mothers whose baby was ripped from their arms and is now nowhere to be found.
Pray.
For rescue workers who are trying desperately to find and help those who survived.
Pray.
For rescue workers who are trying to find someone to recognize the dead body.
Pray.
For rescue workers who are just praying that the dead body they are about to turn over isn't their mother.
Pray.
For the high number of people whose homes are flattened, and wander around with no where to go.
Pray.
For those whose entire town of their childhood-school, neighborhood, community- completely wiped out.
Pray.
For parents whose children are in college and can't get in touch to make sure they are alright.
Pray.
For the hand of the doctors and nurses who care for so many victims.
Pray.
For the doctors and nurses who have to break the news to a wife that her husband didn't pull through.
Pray.
When all you feel like doing is blaming God.
Pray.
When the world comes crashing down around you.
Pray
When you realize you are blessed because your family is still safe and alive.
Pray.
That someone comes to know Christ through the devastation
Pray.
That someone comes BACK to Christ through the devastation.
Pray.
That Christians wake up.
Pray.
For EVERY soul affected in any way by this tragedy.
Pray.
Pray.
Pray.

Search and pray for opportunities to lend a hand.

If we are ever going to become a "City on our Knees," NOW is the time.

(This was written in response to the April 2011 tornadoes that destroyed parts of Alabama).

The Unbreakable Vow

On December 18, 2010 I made a permanent vow. This vow is a promise that is written in stone on God's records. I like to go back and remind myself of the things I promised that day from time to time. There are days when I wonder what on earth I was thinking. There are days when I ask God what He was thinking. There are days when things feel so "hum-drum" that I don't know if I can take it anymore. And it's days like those that I like to re-read these vows and re-live that day, and all of the feelings and emotions that I associate with it. And no matter how I feel now, good or bad, I can look back and remember. And I can know that this is real, true, God-ordained and God-arranged love, partnership, and friendship. And I can recommit myself to making the most of the time that God allows me to have with this wonderful man. My "gift from God." The promise is so special and so important. And no matter what happens to us, nothing will change this covenant. It is done. It is forever. Nothing breaks it except death. That's a big responsibility. But it's urgent that I keep it both to God, and to my husband. So, here is what I promised the two greatest men in my life on December 18, 2010:


"Matthew is a Hebrew name, meaning 'gift from God.' A gift from God you truly are to me. You really are my prince, as you have rescued me in many ways. I am reminded of Ephesians 3:20—21: “Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations.” Before I ever knew you, I spent many hours praying for you. God answered my prayer fully, but also infinitely beyond anything I could have ever thought to ask for or imagine. For this I am eternally thankful. Because you are God’s gift to me, I enter into a lifetime covenant between God, you, and myself. I pray that I will always strive to be the help meet that God created me to be especially for you. I promise to faithfully and unconditionally love you, respect you, and be submissive to you as the head of our home, for the rest of our lives."

Modesty: From the Hearts of Men of God

I exhort you: Be the Proverbs 31 woman.

People Are Like Incense.

People are like incense. You burn it, and it gives off some kind of an aroma.

I have seen and smelled a lot of different kinds of incense. Some of it smells fantastic. On the other hand, some of it smells like . . . well, a lot of things that are a little too crude to write in a blog post.

Like incense, sometimes we are brought to the fire. And when we are, we will undoubtedly produce an aroma.

The million dollar question is this: when YOU are brought through the fire, what is your aroma?

James 1:2-4 says:
"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."

There is no question about it "WHEN you meet trials." Not "If." Sometimes things happen in our lives and we don't know how to deal with it. Sometimes God lets us come through the fire because He sees something beautiful beneath all of the slag and impurities, similar to the process of purifying gold. He knows that after we come out of the fire, the ugly parts will have melted away.

But what about while we are in the fire? Like with incense, when we are in the fire we will give off an aroma. Will it be a pleasing aroma? Or will it be on that disgusts others and sends them away holding their nose?

2 Corinthians 2:14-16 says:
"But thanks be to God, who in Christ always leads us in triumphal procession, and through us spreads the fragrance of the knowledge of Him everywhere. For we are the aroma of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing, to one a fragrance from death to death, to the other a fragrance from life to life."

We need remember that we are like incense. When we are in the fire, we have a strong aroma. And we need to decide what kind of aroma we want to saturate our surroundings with.

As Christians, we have a responsibility to be mindful of our aroma. When others are around us, our "Christness" should be so strong that we blow people away by it. It should be so strong that after we walk past someone, the scent lingers.

So just remember. People are like incense.

Heritage Christian University--The "Best Kept Secret in Town"

It’s the only career where the work you do carries on past this life on earth. It’s ministry. Real-world ministry. And Heritage Christian University can prepare you for exactly that.

Are you the type of student HCU is designed for? Are you a diligent Christian who wants to make a difference in the kingdom of God? Are you self-motivated, hard-working, dependable and mature? Do you have defined goals while at the same time being open to God’s will and going where He guides you in your life? Do you want to know more about the Bible and about theology? Do you want to dedicate your life to God and His kingdom, and prepare yourself to make a difference in eternity?

There is a school that is specially designed for this kind of person. It is a school that is created to attract a certain audience in order to “provide a biblically based education, promote spiritual growth, and prepare communicators of the gospel.” Since its establishment in 1971, Heritage Christian University has offered four-year Bachelor’s degrees in Biblical Studies. It began with the purpose of providing only Biblical degrees so that the program could have sole-focus and therefore be the best Biblical studies program available. Higher degrees in Biblical studies have been added since.

Why choose Heritage Christian University?

Design. If you are the type of student HCU is designed for, you need to be there. The audience that HCU targets has a good personality, but knows when to be serious. He or she is more interested in evangelism and ministry than in wasting time on trivial things. This student is not seeking a school that provides the “fun, college life” but rather school where he or she can stretch and grow. The student would become restless and frustrated in a place that wasn’t designed for him or her. This student would flourish best at HCU.

Academics. The education at HCU is one of excellence. The school offers a “balanced, comprehensive, practical education.” Students are challenged academically, their passion for ministry is enhanced, and their skills for service are strengthened. HCU offers a variety of programs to fit the needs of each student. Degrees offered are: AA in Biblical Studies, BA in Biblical Studies, Master of Arts, and Master of Ministry.

Faculty. HCU is blessed to have the best faculty around. Instructors at Heritage have degrees from schools including Brite Divinity School, Hebrew Union College, and Brandeis University, among others. With instructors specializing in everything from general education to practical ministry to Old Testament to New Testament to Counseling, and more, HCU instructors are a tremendous asset to the school and will not disappoint you.

Finance. Because HCU is a donation-driven school rather than a tuition-driven school, the supreme education it provides can be offered at about half the cost other schools offer Biblical Degrees in. Heritage is blessed with a hard-working President, Dennis Jones, who travels and works hard to make and maintain relationships with people and churches who see the students HCU turns out and desire to make financial contributions. There is also a donations office dedicated to making sure the school stays in good financial order. Besides those working on the donations side of things, a financial aid office is run by Mechelle Thompson who can help you with scholarships, grants, loans, etc. She will make sure you are getting the best deal for your education that can be provided.

Real-World. Not only does HCU give you the head-knowledge you need to be prepared for ministry, but the school also is a hard believer in hands-on learning. Part of the curriculum asks the student to always be involved in some form of Christian Service. This includes anything a variety of things: Bible-class teaching, preaching, door-knocking, jail ministry, etc. There are always new opportunities in this area. Besides the Christian Service program, HCU also organizes opportunities for students to go on campaigns each Spring and each Fall to “get in the field” and use the skills and knowledge HCU is providing. The real-world aspect of HCU ensures that the student will not graduate and go into the field without knowing what to do. It ensure success in ministry.

Distance Learning. Because ministry is so demanding and time-consuming, HCU offers the opportunity for students to get their education online. Students can watch their classes through Tegrity and communicate with instructors and submit assignments through Populi. This allows flexibility in the students at HCU. Michael Jackson is in charge of this department and he keeps things running smoothly for these students. No need to worry about “technical difficulties.” Michael Jackson and Alana Marks know the system backward and forward, and will always have an answer to your question. And if not, they will find the answer.

Students. The students at HCU will relate with you. They share your passion for God. They share your passion for seeing souls saved, learning more about God, and making a difference in the kingdom. Students at HCU work together to make the world and the school a better place. They have a family-like relationship with each other that can be found no place else.

The bottom line: I grew up in the Florence area and graduated from Mars Hill Bible School. I was actively involved in my youth group and in all of the area teen events. And I never knew that Heritage Christian University was designed for me. I had plans to attend another school, but God intervened. He brought my husband into my life through at HCU campaign and that’s how I learned that I was the type of student HCU was designed for. I changed my plans and came to HCU. And I want to get the word out. Because I am so thankful everyday that I decided to continue my education at Heritage Christian University.

Here is a link to the HCU website if you are interested in finding out more:
Heritage Christian University

-Hannah Burleson

Why Am I a Christian?

My husband does the bulletin for church each week. We are trying to emphasize evangelism a lot. He put a section in the bulletin for people to "Testify" and tell others why they are a Christian. He asked me to write the first one.

There are a lot of things that go into the fact that I am a Christian. And I change and grow all of the time, especially since I began my degree in Bible. But I was thinking about it, and trying to put my finger on the reason I am a Christian. And that, I can do. I can put my finger on one person who, if it had not been for her, I would most likely not know Christ, much less be a Christ-follower. Here is the article that I wrote:


"Why am I a Christian? For me, it began when I was just three weeks old. My parents were not (and still are not) faithful Christians. They live a lifestyle that is contrary to Christianity in nearly every way. But for me, it was a grandmother. A grandmother who loved me, and saw the need for me to have God in my life. When I was just three weeks old, she began to keep me on Saturday nights, and she brought me to church every week. She allowed the influence of God and Christianity to come into my life. Even if I only saw the influence from Saturday afternoon through Sunday afternoon. Even if every other influence in my life was completely contrary to that weekly 24 hour period. And it made the difference. It made EVERY difference. Her influence led to the influence of some really great Spiritual giants. Friends, teachers, youth ministers, etc. I probably would not even know my husband if it had not all began when I was three weeks old. And I certainly would not know Christ.

Every Christian was influenced and led to Christ by someone. Who was it for you? And who will you influence and lead?"
-Hannah Burleson


One thing to think about is the fact that there are many other influences on my Christian walk aside from my grandmother. But the point is, she planted the seed and many others watered. And to God be the glory, He is helping me to stretch and grow all of the time. But I can put my finger on that one person who started the process in me. Each of us can be the one to start that process in someone else. Each Christian has the power of one. Don't underestimate your influence. Be empowered by it through God.

There is power in one.